The Right Fight

Name: The Right Fight
Uploaded: 2025-06-15T16:00:00Z
Description: Redemption, not perfection, is the true masterpiece God longs to write through our lives. Pastor Jared Herd shares how fighting for your family and owning your imperfections is how real legacy begins.

June 15, 2025 • Jared Herd • Series: The Right Fight

Redemption, not perfection, is the true masterpiece God longs to write through our lives. Pastor Jared Herd shares how fighting for your family and owning your imperfections is how real legacy begins.

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Many people assume that most theologically conservative men are patriarchal and domineering. But sociological studies have refuted that negative stereotype. Compared to secular men, devout Christian family men who attend church regularly are more loving husbands and more engaged fathers. They have the lowest rates of divorce. And astonishingly, they have the lowest rate of domestic violence of any major group in America. Nominal Christians, which means they are not particularly devout and attend church rarely if at all. They are prone to pick up terms like headship and submission but interpret them through a secular lens of power and control. Surprisingly, research has found that nominal Christian men have the highest rates of divorce and domestic violence—even higher than secular men. These numbers are staggering: They tell us that men who claim the Christian label often exhibit worse behavior than men who are outright secular.
- Nancy Pearcey,
The Toxic War on Masculinity

Fight for yourself
Fight for your family
Fight for a cause

When Sanballat heard that we were rebuilding the wall, he became angry and was greatly incensed. He ridiculed the Jews, and in the presence of his associates and the army of Samaria, he said, “What are those feeble Jews doing? Will they restore their wall? Will they offer sacrifices? Will they finish in a day? Can they bring the stones back to life from those heaps of rubble—burned as they are?” Tobiah the Ammonite, who was at his side, said, “What they are building—even a fox climbing up on it would break down their wall of stones!”
- Nehemiah 4:1-3

Hear us, our God, for we are despised. Turn their insults back on their own heads. Give them over as plunder in a land of captivity. Do not cover up their guilt or blot out their sins from your sight, for they have thrown insults in the face of the builders.
- Nehemiah 4:4-5

Nevertheless we made our prayer unto our God, and set a watch against them day and night, because of them.
- Nehemiah 4:9

Therefore I stationed some of the people behind the lowest points of the wall at the exposed places, posting them by families, with their swords, spears and bows. After I looked things over, I stood up and said to the nobles, the officials and the rest of the people, “Don’t be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, who is great and awesome, and fight for your families, your sons and your daughters, your wives and your homes.”
- Nehemiah 4:13-14

1. Fight for yourself

Reading scripture 4x a week

Feeling lonely drops 30%
Anger issues drop 32%
Bitterness in relationships drops 40%
Alcoholism drops 57%
Sex outside of marriage drops 68%
Feeling spiritually stagnant drops 60%
Viewing pornography drops 61%
Sharing your faith jumps 200%
Discipling others jumps 230%

2. Fight for your family

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word…
- Ephesians 5:25-26

3. Fight for a cause

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